當你駕著車，迷了路，再不知道從哪來、到哪去... 我們通常會愈開愈快。
因為迷失、欠自信... 人就會心焦、急躁起來。
如果很知道自己在做什麼、為什麼在做、理想如何達到...
混身便會散發一鼓(王者的)清清風、淡淡定。
唔好急。唔好亂。別騰雞。也不用把書頁狂揭，恨不得偷看末段、大結局!
事事有定時。都說不用看晒成條樓梯... 只要踏出一步、肯定的一步! 就好。
LET LIFE UNFOLD。
「生活在大都市」對於人類的畸型影響— 究竟有多深遠，也許未能盡數。
首先，是令一個人變得愈來愈沒有耐性。
什麼都要趕、跑、迫、追、爆、塞、喪CHUR ... ... 愈近利、愈急功。
好似凡事都像櫃員機，一按即吐現... 一天廿四小時候命。
唔等得。因為趕、因為忙。因為你媽的要我等三分鐘!?! 你憑什麼!?!?!?
每分鐘也在進取，這分鐘卻掛念誰?
對工作如是。對人如是。對朋友，家人如是。對自己亦然。
對自己是最沒有耐性的了：有差錯!?...
自己雖然不是媽媽，但對於其他女人的產痛，都很敏感。
幾位好朋友進產房時，我們還在whatsapp! (開到幾多度... 差不多了... 嘩你!!! Push!!!)
簡直是你催生、我滴汗! 肉緊得自己都有點腳軟...
當然啦，每個月之痛已經是產痛的深入淺嚐。
所以，女人的耐痛能力，從來比大男人更堅!
但此文並不是想說臨盆經驗初探。其實，每一個人，都會經歷若干的「產痛」。
在蘊釀之時、等待之時... 在計劃開展與達成之間的力挽、堅持...
為了實現所謂「夢想」，每一次的咬緊牙關! (混著血和汗)
在每一步、每一步... 人有幾多次堅定地向著前... 的死活、拚殺!
吸、呼.. 吸... 呼呼呼.... 的似有還無、氣弱柔絲而不斷!
... ... 都是分娩的一個過程吧。
所以，當親手拿著：一本書、一部小說、一份合同、一畢人工、一個獎杯、一齣電影...
我們大可以微微笑說：Baby，終於見到你!!!
恭喜。
還有一種，我稱為「後產痛」的苦楚，對，通常是比較女人的「專利」。
把嬰兒懷抱手中，多久都不疲累。
要日夜餵多少次奶水、怎樣曖怎樣呵......
Message from Medjugorje, Jan 2 2015
"Dear children, I am here among you as a mother who desires to help you to come to know the truth. While I lived your life on earth I had knowledge of the truth, and by this alone, a piece of Heaven on earth. That is why I desire the same for you, my children. The Heavenly Father desires pure hearts filled with the knowledge of the truth. He desires for you to love all those whom you meet, because I also love my Son in all of you. This is the beginning of coming to know the truth. Many false truths are being offered to you. You will overcome them with a heart cleansed by fasting, prayer, penance and the Gospel. This is the only truth and it is the truth which my Son left you. You do not need to examine it much. What is asked of you, as I also have done, is to love and to give. My children, if you love, your heart will be a home for my Son and me, and the words of my Son will be the guiding light in your life. My children, I will make use of you, apostles of love, to help all of my children to come to know the truth. My children, I have always prayed for the Church of my Son, and so I also ask the same of you. Pray that your shepherds may come to shine forth with the love of my Son. Thank you."
