你追我藏、猜猜度度、進退攻守... 是感情的好玩之處。心癢之樂也。
大概不止於猜猜情尋曖昧險些「得手」之時；要讓感情常保樂趣，還需懂得收放有時。
挑釁、慾望與得手的電光火石之間，收與放的節奏。
畢生之修為、鍛鍊、攻守也。
走在一起之前，有一個時期，叫作「愈是期待愈是美麗」。
這是一個進與退、探戈的要塞。最 intense 的挑釁與拉鋸。那些能耐與力水，千金不換，可一不可再!
那天我跟朋友說起... 「蝦，其實，我們爸爸媽媽的年代，是如何曖昧的呢?」
沒有SMS、Whatsapp、inbox、Email、LINE ...
朋友答：「其實我們開始拍拖的那些年，也只有電話跟ICQ呀.. 然後是MSN囉!」
噢... 那是個挺叫人懷念的年頭啊，不是嗎?
《He is just not that into...
Message from Medjugorje, Jan 2 2015
"Dear children, I am here among you as a mother who desires to help you to come to know the truth. While I lived your life on earth I had knowledge of the truth, and by this alone, a piece of Heaven on earth. That is why I desire the same for you, my children. The Heavenly Father desires pure hearts filled with the knowledge of the truth. He desires for you to love all those whom you meet, because I also love my Son in all of you. This is the beginning of coming to know the truth. Many false truths are being offered to you. You will overcome them with a heart cleansed by fasting, prayer, penance and the Gospel. This is the only truth and it is the truth which my Son left you. You do not need to examine it much. What is asked of you, as I also have done, is to love and to give. My children, if you love, your heart will be a home for my Son and me, and the words of my Son will be the guiding light in your life. My children, I will make use of you, apostles of love, to help all of my children to come to know the truth. My children, I have always prayed for the Church of my Son, and so I also ask the same of you. Pray that your shepherds may come to shine forth with the love of my Son. Thank you."
