人單獨不好。
但為了不單獨一個人，而把自己的身體靈魂強行黏貼往另一個體，徒傷悲, 很嘥氣。
三十歲的最後不多幾天，一個人黃昏時候走去田野間散散步。
吸一口氣, 呀, 我竟然在感謝天主: 我好好的一個人!
我知道, 許多已為人妻、人母的女友們, 肯定, 對於我此刻的閒靜, 有三兩分豔羨吧! (哈)
但獨身是一個不穩定的狀態，這得承認, 是一個有所「欠缺」的心境。很容易導致焦慮。
但人生誰沒有欠缺及焦慮?
不該的是, 將「嫁出去」成為一個目標, 衝刺!!! (沖廁就有份...)
那天跟朋友 gals talk.. 已為人妻的她跟我這個盛女說起生小孩及「現代人的不育問題」(!) , 一個神父跟她說: 夫妻不要只為生子孩而造愛! MAKE LOVE FIRST! BABIES ARE...
電子郵箱溫柔地溜出了一行細細字：Je pose un baiser sur ton front ce soir。
明明是Verdana 12字體的微度斜角，怎也說不上溫柔或波心。但就有一種柔情與冒昧的悸動，像一片薄薄的比利時 Galler （朱古力）在舌尖上一滑、即溶、一陣濃郁的甜膩，引起嘴角微微莞爾一笑。好聽的情話，哪個女人不愛聽? 還要是法文的，認了吧，這個(該死的難學的)語言，就是有哈哩波特之咕嚕咕嚕... 變法。(還不過是「水」，水喉水得了吧，捲起舌緩慢吐出一個「l'eau」字... 還是很有法國風情。By the way，l'eau的發音，其實是「撈」! 拿!!! 換了中文字，是不是幻想破滅... 丫!)
總之，一句法文的調情話，是令人很有咬唇的衝動。是的。原來，當一位(特別是三十前後，獨身的)女性，接收了正中下懷的情意綿綿挑逗訊號，「相關直接搜尋」會自動列出一連串連結(及Pinterest圖像)，例如：
求婚
介指
花球
蜜月
行禮
家
孩子
(同樣情況發生在男生身上，我不肯定那些相關詞會是什麼......
Message from Medjugorje, Jan 2 2015
"Dear children, I am here among you as a mother who desires to help you to come to know the truth. While I lived your life on earth I had knowledge of the truth, and by this alone, a piece of Heaven on earth. That is why I desire the same for you, my children. The Heavenly Father desires pure hearts filled with the knowledge of the truth. He desires for you to love all those whom you meet, because I also love my Son in all of you. This is the beginning of coming to know the truth. Many false truths are being offered to you. You will overcome them with a heart cleansed by fasting, prayer, penance and the Gospel. This is the only truth and it is the truth which my Son left you. You do not need to examine it much. What is asked of you, as I also have done, is to love and to give. My children, if you love, your heart will be a home for my Son and me, and the words of my Son will be the guiding light in your life. My children, I will make use of you, apostles of love, to help all of my children to come to know the truth. My children, I have always prayed for the Church of my Son, and so I also ask the same of you. Pray that your shepherds may come to shine forth with the love of my Son. Thank you."
